AUGUST 12, 2009

       First Paula Abdul, then Twitter. Last week was tough for some folks. It was tough for me because of the backlash for criticizing those obsessed with reality TV.

       Not only did I write about the hardcore fanatics, I also talked about them on the radio. For every one person that agreed with me, there were about 15 that ripped me apart for not taking seriously a show like American Idol.

       Again, let’s focus here, people: it is a television show. So, to recap some of your thoughts:

       “Get a grip, Jeremy. It’s the hugest show on television. It wouldn’t be if it wasn’t fascinating to watch,” wrote Camille.

       “You comment on how television is getting so violent, it’s refreshing to have an uplifting show like Idol,” said Jordan, who failed to mention the dreams the show crushes at the expense of the hopeful contestants. Nothing makes me feel better than seeing a distraught reject crying during a shameful exit.

       I had to laugh at this one: “American Idol is an escape from reality and a chance for us to delve into the Hollywood lifestyle.”

       Let’s rewind: American Idol is a reality show that allows you to escape from your reality to experience another reality. Wouldn’t that be called a fantasy show since the viewer is more an observer/dreamer when watching it?

       I won’t deny Idol is entertaining. Is it my cup of tea? No. But, when people get so wrapped up in a not-your-typical-reality reality show, it gets a little worrisome.

       Again, with so much stuff going wrong in the world, situations might get resolved quicker if we turned off the reality TV and opened up our eyes and hearts to real reality and do something beneficial.

       For those of you refusing to give up your Idol obsession, here’s something to do next season: every time one of the judges crushes someone’s dream or makes a person cry, donate one dollar to your favourite local charity. Not only will you be enjoying your show, you’ll be helping someone at the same time.