Being a parent but with more kids
The stress comes in when you have are room of 30 or so kids and half are talking and not paying attention to what's going on. Then you have another half that are actually trying to work and need your help. Then you add in interruptions with the intercom and visitors to the door and pretty soon you've got a blood pressure going through the roof. What is the fun in that? For the people who [wrote in to SpeakFree] and said that teachers know what we're getting into, yes, we know we're going to be teaching a group of kids. But we never know how rowdy they can be or disruptive. That's something you never know because some days can be good and some days can be bad. Think of it as being a parent with two kids. You know how tough it can be if they are uncooperative. Multiply that by 15 and there's your room of 30 kids and you try dealing with it now.
-Tom. Dartmouth, Nova Scotia
If you aren't the boss, good luck
I totally agree with [the "To the Point" column] that if a teacher can't handle everything that is thrown at him or her then maybe it is time for a bit more training on how to deal with situations that arise in the classroom. If that doesn't work then maybe the glorious career of being a teacher isn't suitable for you. I'm not saying that the job is easy but you also have to maintain a certain working relationship with students just like you would at your own job. It would be like getting a new boss and it takes a while to get comfortable with them. For students, I am the boss. If I don't enforce the rules or create an environment that is comfortable for every person then it's my fault. It would have nothing to do with blaming kids or other people. Maybe a new teaching style or new rules for the classroom would help the situation. The whole issue certainly falls back on you as a teacher and how well you run your classroom.
-Iona. Kelowna, British Columbia
Teacher understands the stress
Everyone has an image of what a teacher is. What people don't usually envision is the threats, the violence, the disrespect and then feeling of lack of control when it comes to running a classroom. Most people think that just because a teacher says, "Be quiet" that the students immediately stop talking and listen. Not a chance! So you try saying "Be quiet, be quiet, be quiet" with sometimes no response at all from the students. At first, no, it isn't all that stressful, but after a while you get the feeling that you're a bad teacher because students don't do what they're told. That leads to the stress that teachers feel they need a year off. It's understandable to me, and I'm sure to most teachers, but probably not to the general public.
-Catherine. Chicago, Illinois
Vacations are long enough
Most people think the holiday time for teachers is great and everyone would want that but let me tell you it gets pretty boring. If you are married and your spouse doesn't get the same holidays as you, it can be a pretty lonely time. If you have no kids or pets then it gets even worse. You can only go for so many walks or visit a mall or do things on your own for so long. You feel useless by the end of it all and the last half of the vacation you're wanting to get back into school. There are many people who are attacking teachers and saying it's not a full eight-hour day or that there is so much vacation time, but I truly don't think that's why people get into teaching. We don't make up the work hours or have a say in how long the school day is. I have a feeling if teachers did set those dates the vacation periods wouldn't be as long as they are.
-Alison. Lincoln, Nebraska